50+ Exciting Birthday Invitation Message Ideas

From fun ideas for kids' parties to elegant dinner invitations and quirky messages for themed events, find the perfect words to set the tone for your special day. Make your invitations stand out with these simple yet effective suggestions.

It’s party time! But before you can have all your friends and family over to celebrate your next birthday, you’ll need to send out your RSVPs. 

If you absolutely love to throw parties for your birthday every year, however, it can be easy to run out of message ideas for your birthday party invitation cards. So, if you’d like to create an invitation card that really gets your guests excited about the festivities on the horizon and make sure your birthday party invitation is one for the books (the photo albums, that is!), then why not use any of the 50+ birthday party invitation card messages we’ll be sharing today?

Here are our top birthday party invitation card messages for all types of birthday party ideas.

10+ Messages for Kids Birthday Party Invitation Cards

For kids birthday parties, it’s always best to keep your birthday party invitation card messages short, sweet, and definitely cute, just for the parents to appreciate! A fun idea is to try creating a birthday invitation message that rhymes with the age your little one will be turning. For example, ‘Clowns, confetti, and birthday cake – Pia is turning 8!’. 

You may also choose to personalize your kids' birthday party invitation cards to fit a party theme, like pirates, princesses, unicorns, or outer space.

Here are some other ideas to get your creative juices flowing:

  1. Hop on over and join the play on [Date] for [Name]’s birthday!
  2. Come rain or shine, it’s birthday time! Come celebrate [Name] turning [Age] with us!
  3. 3…2…1…Blast off! [Name]’s birthday party will be out of this world!
  4. Gentle princesses and noble knights, you are cordially invited to an evening of delights.
  5. Ahoy, matey! It be [Name]’s birthday, me hearties. Yarr ready to party?
  6. Rainbows, glitter, and unicorn delight – [Name]’s birthday party will be pure magic and light.
  7. A magical day is on the way – it’s time to celebrate [Name]’s birthday!
  8. It’s time for a RAWRsome celebration – come celebrate [Name]’s birthday with us!
  9. A little princess is turning [Age] – come celebrate with tiaras and cake!
  10. It’s a bird, it’s a plane! It’s [Name]’s super birthday bash!

10+ Messages for 21st Birthday Party Invitation Cards

For 21st birthday party invitation cards, the focus should always be on having fun and perhaps even some drinks and dancing. For 21st birthday girls, you may even include some punny key-themed messages, as the key is a symbolic 21st birthday gift. This is also worth keeping in mind if you’re looking to write a card with personalised wishes for the birthday girl.

Here are some great messages to include in a 21st birthday party invitation card:

  1. Sip, sip, hooray! [Name] is 21 today!
  2. Pop the champagne because [Name] is 21! Come raise a glass and join the fun!
  3. You only turn 21 once – come celebrate [Name]’s with us!
  4. What’s the key to a good 21st birthday party? Dancing, drinks, and you!
  5. 21 at last! Come celebrate [Name]’s birthday with us!
  6. Let’s all raise a glass – [Name] is 21 at last!
  7. One night only: [Name] turns 21! Come for the drinks, stay for the memories.
  8. It’s [Name]’s 21st! Come for the cheers, stay for the beers.
  9. Classy, sassy, and 21 today – come and celebrate [Name]’s birthday.
  10. Keeping it classy, it’s [Name]’s 21st! Come celebrate like you’re dying of thirst.

10+ Messages for Costume Party Invitation Cards

Costume parties are always guaranteed to be a good time, so you want to make sure your costume party invitation card sets this tone super well. Thankfully, it doesn’t take too much firepower to think up some great invitation card messages for costume parties. 

For starters, you can easily tailor your birthday invitation messages to fit the theme of your party. Want to have a Roaring Twenties-themed costume party? Then include a few quotes from The Great Gatsby!

Here are some other great costume party invitation card message ideas:

  1. Get ready for an evening of masks and intrigue – it’s [Name]’s masquerade birthday party.
  2. Once upon a time, [Name] was celebrating a birthday…and you are cordially invited to join.
  3. Ghosts, ghouls, or full glam – all are welcome to [Name]’s spooky birthday bash.
  4. Dust off your red carpet looks, it’s [Name]’s Hollywood birthday party.
  5. It’s [Name]’s superhero birthday party! Capes, encouraged. Evil laughs, optional.
  6. Dukes and duchesses – you are royally invited to [Name]’s birthday ball of the season.
  7. You’re invited to [Name]’s flashback birthday party! Butterflies, scrunchies, disco balls – anything goes as long as it’s a throwback!
  8. Dress to impress – it’s time for [Name]’s birthday costume party!
  9. It’s [Name]’s birthday to the stars! Come dressed to the nines as your fave actors and idols.
  10. Lights, camera, costume! Come celebrate [Name]’s birthday in style (or in disguise)!

10+ Messages for Birthday Dinner Party Invitation Cards

Want to do something a little extra special for your next birthday party? For those of us who’ve had our fair share of rowdy birthday celebrations, hosting a birthday dinner party can provide a more mellow and intimate experience that still allows you to celebrate with your nearest and dearest. All you really need to host the perfect birthday dinner party is a classy RSVP, a great dinner menu, and perhaps some conversation starters to keep the chatter going.

Here are some great birthday dinner party invitation messages to include in your classy dinner invitation card:

  1. Your presence will be a gift enough! Come join us for dinner on [Date] to celebrate [Name]’s birthday.
  2. You’re invited to [Name]’s birthday dinner party. Come enjoy an evening of great food, fine wine, and even better company.
  3. Pull up a chair and pour a glass, we’re throwing a birthday dinner party and you’re invited!
  4. To good friends and full plates – come celebrate at [Name]’s birthday dinner party.
  5. Bon appétit et bonne soirée! It’s time for [Name]’s birthday dinner party.
  6. Mangia, sip, and savor! It’s time for [Name]’s birthday dinner party.
  7. Say cheese (and charcuterie)! You’re invited to [Name]’s birthday dinner party.
  8. The grill is hot and the drinks are frosty, it’s [Name]’s al fresco birthday dinner party.
  9. We’re cooking up something special for [Name]’s birthday – and you’re invited!
  10. Join us for an evening of fine dining and delightful conversation to celebrate [Name]’s birthday.

10+ Funny Birthday Party Invitation Cards

Finally, if any of the birthday party card invitation ideas we’ve shared today still don’t fit the bill, and you’d prefer to go with something maybe a little sharper or funnier, feel free to seek inspiration from these more devilishly charming birthday party invitation card ideas we’ve compiled below.

Here are our top funny, and maybe just a little bit wicked birthday party invitation card messages:

  1. Join us for cake, chaos, and questionable dance moves. It’s [Name]’s birthday party!
  2. [Name] is turning [Age] and still can’t parallel park. Come party anyway!
  3. No gifts, just cake. Maybe some dancing. Probably regrets. Let’s party!
  4. Over the hill but not under it! Come celebrate [Name]’s birthday party with us!
  5. Like a fine wine or a wheel of cheese, [Name] is only getting smellier – I mean better. Come celebrate their birthday with us!
  6. It’s [Name]’s birthday party! Come for the cake, stay for the drama. 
  7. Another year older and still none the wiser. Come celebrate [Name]’s birthday with us!
  8. Come celebrate [Name]’s birthday party with us! No clowns…unless you count [Name].
  9. Come celebrate [Name]’s birthday. We can’t promise you’ll remember it, but we can promise it’s happening.
  10. [Name]’s another year older! Come celebrate with drinks, dancing, and existential dread.

Creative Birthday Invitation Message Ideas

Creative Birthday Invitation Message Ideas

Writing a birthday invitation message doesn’t have to be hard; just make it fun and personal! Whether you're hosting a party for a close friend or a big family celebration, choosing the right words can set the tone and excite your guests. Here are some cute and fun message ideas to inspire your next birthday invitation.

  • Personal Touch: "It's my birthday, and I'd love to celebrate with you! Come join me for fun, food, and laughter!"
  • Exciting Vibe: "The countdown to the best birthday bash starts now! Are you ready to party?"
  • Funny Invitation: "Another year older, but I’m still the life of the party! Come help me celebrate!"
  • Simple and Sweet: "It’s my special day, and you’re invited to join the celebration. Let’s make some memories!"
  • Playful Request: "Bring your party spirit and dancing shoes; it's going to be a birthday to remember!"
  • Charming Rhyme: "Cake, music, and fun galore, come celebrate with me and so much more!"

Wrapping Up: Personalize your Birthday Party Invitation Cards with these Cute Messages

Found a few birthday party invitation card message ideas that have piqued your fancy? Then why not get started on designing your next birthday invitation cards now? Once all your RSVPs are out of the way, you can start on the funner things, after all, like planning your party activities!