The appeal of Snapchat is that the chats and content disappear after 24 hours. Also its one of the most popular social media apps. It is relevant with most people, and if you play your cards right, you can have a great conversation over it.
To help you out, I have used my intel that’ll make you the master of Snapchat conversations. You will learn different and effective ways to start a conversation with a girl on Snapchat.
Things to Be Mindful of
- It is always important to remember that the girl you want to start a conversation with deserves respect. Treat her right, and she will appreciate you.
- Stay away from crass language. No girl likes to talk to someone who is being weird or creepy towards her.
- If you like her, flirting is an option. My advice is to always keep it within the realms of decency, fun, and respectfulness.
- The feature of saving chats and images is there in the app but use it carefully. Avoid saving content that is sensitive or personal for her.
- You might like a snap of hers but never take a screenshot. It is an invasion of her privacy.
How to Start an Interesting Conversation?
The “how” part is pretty simple. If you have her Snapchat username, simply shoot her an add request and wait for her to accept it. The real work begins when she does add you, and you have to start a conversation with her.
Kinds of Texts to Grab Her Attention
There are so many scenarios that require different opening texts. The key to talking to any new or new-ish person is always to take the right approach.
Since Snapchat has a sketchy reputation, you need to be careful about how you approach the girl.
There are several ways to start a conversation with a girl on Snapchat, and I am here to tell you all about them. We will discuss a few kinds of scenarios, and you can always bring changes as per your personality.
1. Respond to Her Story
It is a common method but certainly not outdated. When people, regardless of their gender, upload stories, they like receiving replies on them. It might not apply to all, but most people love hearing back from their mutuals.
Your response will be dependent upon the type of story she uploads. Let me give you a few examples:
- Respond To Her Food Related Stories
If her story features food, you can compliment it. You can always ask her where she got it from and even ask what she thought about it. It will get the conversation flowing. If you want to be a little flirty, you can ask her if she would like to go to that place again with you. If nothing else, you can always start a conversation about her favorite food dishes.
- Respond To her Personal Pictures
In this arena, you should remain respectful. People love being complimented but not if the compliments are weird. Be charming and expressive if there are any interesting aspects of her story; a question or talk about them.
2. Approach Her Directly
In my opinion, this is the best way to start a conversation with a girl on Snapchat. You should directly message her without any hidden tactics.
Simply send her a text that sounds casual. For example, you can say, “Hey, how are you doing? I’ve been meaning to text you but didn’t know how to grab your attention. In the end, I decided to keep it simple and see if you would be interested in talking to me.”
3. Make Her Curious
It is almost an underhanded way, but you can send her a snap that only lasts for a second or two. Make sure that it is ambiguous. There is no way she’ll be able to catch what it actually is in such a short time.
The probability is that she will message you, asking about this. I have given you the secret of starting the convo; carrying it forward is entirely on you.
4. Share Something
I am talking about utilizing the remarkable feature of Discover that is on Snapchat. You will find a myriad of articles, pictures, and videos available there. Even if you can’t find something to talk about, share one of these things. Send a message that lets her know that you were thinking of her.
5. Group Text Approach
If you feel too much pressure, you can make a casual group where you send random snaps. It will give her a bit of a chance to get accustomed to you while not feeling suffocated by you.
If she ever responds in the group, you can send her a snap directly and take it forward.
When to Send Her a Snap/Message?
It is essential to have the timings right. If she has just given you her username and you immediately text her after she adds you, it can come off as a little eager. It is always a good idea to wait a few hours before sending your first message.
If you are starting the conversation for the first time, make sure not to do it in the late hours. If you send her a late-night snap, she can take it as you being a little creepy. Always send the first-ever text when there is light outside. Once you guys establish the communication, you can message her even at night (if she seems okay with it).
Many people worry about how much time they should take to text back. If she sends you a snap or text first, it’s a good sign. It means that she at least considers you worthy of receiving her snap. If the snap seems like something that she sent to her entire friend list, it becomes tricky. You can choose to respond but be calm about it. If she has sent you a specific snap, you can reply after a while.
Frequency of Starting Convos
People ask me a big question: “I feel like texting her/him/them all the time but should I?”. My answer always depends upon the kind of relationship they have with the person they want to talk to.
If you are newly starting a friendship or flirtation-ship, then you should rein it back a little. Always playoff on the vibes that she’s giving you. If you are the only one who is always starting the conversation, she may not be that into talking to you.
Always remember that giving space is good, so the frequency of your texts/snaps should be moderate. If she matches your energy, you can text/snap her as much as you want.
If you want the girl to maintain correspondence with you, you should master your game of Snapchat first. I know that if you follow my advice above, you should be good.
Always remember to take her feelings and boundaries into consideration. As long as you keep it casual, you should have no problem starting a conversation with a girl on Snapchat.